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This year i stayed back so now im going to school with kids a younger age then me but i have a high goal im ganna be the smart girl and the one that know's it all but i really have only one person who believes me and said to say it's not my mother she doesnt even know im there when she prasing my brothers jason used to be the disipointment and now im the one my mother hates...she doesnt trust me and ive never lied to her-not about skipping school saying im going to the library and go to a friends house...I may have gotten into fights but i never started one she never has my back and i know when i get in a fight im doing the wrong thing but my mother doesnt punish me she only stares at me till cry i dont think this is really a question im only explaining whats going on she never trust me excuses me of smoking and doing drugs and sleeping with guys and i swear im telling the truth i havent even been ofered drugs or cigerrets and if i was id pass there horrible for and for sleeping around ive only had 2 boyfriends!!i dont kno where shes getting this stuff but i hide my diary under my bed materess and one day it wasnt at the end of my bed where i always put it it was at the front!!and my mother had been in my room "cleaing"things up...i have a box full of poems and little stories i kept them in by date and now its a mess if shes ganna snoop she should do it right and ive told everything to one kid his name is eric and i usto hang out with him in school but now were in diffrent grades so i dont see him but i do on the bus and i told him everything and i like him ALOT but i havent told my diary cause of my mom ive moved it like 8 times but she keeps finding it i dont know how and eric agrees with everything and i swear were like a key and a lock but im not the type of girl guys BEG to date hes just like me and then everything im not if that makes sence i dont know who i am but i know without him what im not i want him to know?but i dont know how hed take it so im not ganna tell him but hwo to i give him clues that i like him and i mean like LOVE him im not talking like i have a wall full of him i only have acouple picture of us together when we were kids-
i think he has no idea but then everyone else knows so i dont kno if he does but he sure hasnt said anything-
How do i make my mother trust me and the guy i REALLy CARE about know i like him
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1st off. your mother doesnt hate you. she may seem disappointed i agree. but really shes just looking for you to find yourself. its hard to believe but mothers are very hard on girls. i know my mother is hard on me! thats for sure. and i completely understand about the whole grades thing. the only thing you can do is work hard and keep trying to show her how hard your working. and if she doesnt get it and is still hard, which is probably going to happen, then you just keep doing what youre doing. and make yourself happy. dont worry about the rest. but know your mom does love you. and sometimes, mothers just want to know whats going on in their daughters lives. which might be why shes taking your diary.
my mother used to take my diary. mine actually got exposed amoungst the family. it was an awful expirence so be careful what you write and say. but if you think she'll be understanding try talking to her about not taking your diary. my mom still cleans my room and makes my bed so i know what it feels like to have all your stuff gone through. and im seventeen years old. hah.
if not try to find a different hiding place. or keep it in your purse if its small enough. or have 2 seperate diarys. one about school n such. and one about your love life ;) and keep the other one really hidden
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2- the boy. he sounds like he likes you but then again boys are oblivious to the world. so you gotta just come out and ask him. as simple as that. its scary but its better knowing than not knowing. it can lead to "lead ons" and that'll just make it worse. just got outa something like that
hope all works well for you :)
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