|
always the friend..never the girl..
16, female :)
alright, ive never had a boyfriend before and sometimes i get really upset and just lonely. everyone says im soo gorgeous and they are always in total shock when they hear this ..and not to sound conceited or anything but i dont think im like ugly or anything!! i am kinda outgoing around most guys but some guys say im really quiet. i dont know! im always their best friend, like i use to like this one kid but then he got a girlfriend and now im his best friend and we can talk to each other about alot of stuff and like ..i always help him out with his girlfriend problems! at least im still friends with him though you know. but then me and this other guy hooked up and he was kinda starting to like me but then when people start to like me..its like i get weirded out and start to seem not intersted because im scared to show my feelings (i dont know why..) and then later when they arent interested in me anymore all i can think about is wanting to be with them and how i messed up and how they have a girlfriend now..
everyone says you have to wait for the right one but ive been waiting for 16 years, and i still get embarassed when people bring it up that ive never had a boyfriend even though they never believe it. ive kissed and madeout and stuff..but im NOT a slut at all. ive only madeout with 2 guys..
i dont know im so sick of being the friend and never their girlfriend. what am i doing wrong? am i just afraid to have a boyfriend because i wont know how to react or what to do?!
well anything with help with this!
THANK YOU<3
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
okay, well i dont knwo how you act around them. but im guessing you just act cool around them and stuff. maybe not so much lfirting. try to flirt wiht them, and try to tell them how you like them and try to do more stuff wiht jsut them and no one else. tell him how he feels before he moves on to someone else.
]
More Questions: |