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My Freind's Obsessed with Her Boyfriend My friend just recently got a new boyfriend. She spends so much time with him. We used to be really close and go to each others houses about 3 times a week, but now the only time I get to see her is at school. I thinks its okay for her to spend time with him (heck, I'd think it was weird if she didn't) but this is getting out of hand. I tried talking to her about it, but so far she has done anything...It gets annoying, and it makes me sad we dont see each other anymore. Boo hoo!
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Give her some time, it's kinda like getting a new puppy. She loves it right now, but in a few weeks it's the same thing, and it kinda gets boring. It's good that she's spending so much time with him now, that way if they're together for a while, they won't ALWAYS have to be with each other once their relationship grows. Right now they're getting to knowing each other and getting used to each other, so it's a new fun expierience. If you've talked to her about it, honestly there's not much to do besides give it time and wait it out. I've had this problem alot with a few of my girls and I've been guilty of it once or twice. In a way you kinda feel jealous, and left out, I know it sucks. But you guys are friends and it'll work out. Try planning a day on the weekend or a day after school where you two can get together without her boyfriend. Have a girls day, and maybe it'll bring her closer to you. Remind her that friends are forever but boys really do come and go!
Good luck!
=] Evy ]
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