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Wanting my ex back


Question Posted Monday September 11 2006, 1:31 pm

Hello,
My name is Frank./ I was with my exgirlfriend for 4 and a half years. We lived together ofr 3 of those years. We were both young and I understand that she has to live her life and experience life but I miss and I am so in love with her it hurts.he left me a few days after getting a house together. I went through the normal things, anger, despair and everything. My question is, am I a fool for still having hope and believing in what we had after a year of nopt speaking or anything? My family tells me to move on but how can I move on when I am in love and believe in her so much? I just want a second chance to make it right with her


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xEVYx answered Monday September 11 2006, 9:18 pm:
To me it sounds perfectly normal. I mean, you were with the girl for 4 years, it's not like you can just forget everything you two had together. It's gonna take time. Have you tried talking it over with her, and find out why she left you? If you haven't, that could be a start. Knowing how she feels and why might help you feel at ease a little, even though it may and probably will hurt at first. Then hopefully it'll settle things between you two, and if you aren't already you can be friends again. You never know, maybe you guys will be together again in the future. Whatever you do just don't rush into the situation. You don't want her to feel like she has to or anything.

But if it's not possible of getting back together, as I said before it'll take time. I've broken up with guys and it's hurt pretty bad, I think it took me about a month to get over this one guy. When I finally did, I realized how much time I spent dwelling on the situation when I could've been fixing it or making things better with myself.

Anyways good luck! If you need anything else you know where to find me!

=] Evy

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