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my boyfriend and the dance!!!
he took me to the dance last night and I just couldn't dance with him!!!!!! I told him that I was the chicken that's still in the egg and hasn't got the courage and will power to come out!!!(the chicken is refering to me!!!!) I hung out more with my friends than I did with him!!!! I feel like I'm the worst person in the world( which I know I'm not). we were supposed to go skating today around 1:00 and I told him to call but he hasn't and my nanna erased his number off of the phone and I can't find it in the phone book!!!!!!! help me please!!!!!!! I need some advice and I don't know what to do!!!!!!!
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okay, first of all you can take a deep breath and quit using so many exclamation points. ask him if he's upset that you didn't hang out with him at the dance. if he says yes, apologize. if he says no, then you have no problem. as for not having his number, call one of your friends or one of his friends and see if they have the number. you told him to call you and he hasn't so maybe he got grounded or has other plans he didn't know about. how old are you?
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Well, you can always just explain to him on Monday in school that you're sorry about the dance and that you would've called him, but you're nanna erased him number, so you couldn't. If you know any of his friends or if you know any of your friends who have his number, give them a call and ask them if they can give it to you. And whenever you do find it out, maybe ask a friend to write it down and keep a hold of it for you incase your nanna ever deletes it again. Also, you can just leave him a message on myspace or instant message him and tell him. I'm sure he doesn't mind, it's not that big of a deal. Alot of girlfriends and boyfriends split up for a little bit during the dance and just hang out with their friends and goof off and then dance together for a bit and talk and so on. I hope I helped.
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I'm sorry, but I don't understand why it's such a huge issue...
If he goes to your school why don't you tell him on Monday that you were sorry you didn't spend as much time as you thought you would with him, and chose to hang around your friends rather than him. If he's an understanding guy, he'll be okay with it and there should be no problem.
Now, as for the issue of not having his number... If you have one of his friend's phone numbers give them a ring and ask them for it, or you can wait until he calls you [which he most likely WILL do at one point].
You are not the worst person in the world, trust me that's not the worst thing you could have done to a guy, and I'm sure that he knows that as well.
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