Question Posted Thursday September 7 2006, 9:48 pm
you answered my question earlier and this was it...
So I thought I liked the guy and he sent me a note saying he wants to get to know me because he likes me and I sent him a note back saying I would like to get to know him to. Im not so sure I like him anymore because when ever hes around I feel REALLY nervouse so nervous I cant concentrate on my work or eat. When im around other guys I like im not nervous. I try to avoid him and hes always staring at me and stuff and asked for my number but im starting to think I dont like him anymore. Im in 8th grade and never had a boyfriend and im really ok with that. Actually I love being single and I dont think im ready to have a boyfriend. Is that a bad thing? I think hes going to ask me out soon but I dont want to make him feel bad and I have no clue what to do. And I like this other guy and I liked him for a long time and I still like him better than the guy thats going to ask me out. I dont feel nervous around him or anything. But I like being single because I dont feel all nervous. Is this dumb of me? Please help. I dont want to go out with the other guy now.
I really dont want to go out with that other guy. He makes me feel nervous and hes always like following me.
Did you think I was messing with the other guys emotions? I will feel really bad if I say no when he asks me out but I dont want to go out with someone who I cant even talk to without getting nervous and I would rather go out with someone I can be myself around.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? adviceforlife answered Friday September 8 2006, 3:33 pm: Guys are really weird, they have odd ways of showing their emotions. If you really don't want to go out with him, then don't. Going out with someone you don't like isn't even worth it. However, the story of my boyfriend and I starts with us like hardly ever saying anything, I was the one who talked, or at least tried to. But after a few weeks we were more comfortable with each other, we told each other everything and still do. So you should consider that when making your decision. But the decision is all up to you, I can't make it for you. If you do reject him, don't worry, he may be down for a while but it may be just because rejection is hard to deal with. Good luck. :) [ adviceforlife's advice column | Ask adviceforlife A Question ]
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