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New g/f
My last girlfriend and I were together two and a half years and I became very good with her. I could pleasure her easily and in some cases because I was good with clitoral stimulation by the mouth and hand could give her an orgasm in minutes on occasion. However, I have a new girlfriend and I've tried fingering her and rubbing her clit, but she says she doesn't get much pleasure from it at all. The most we have tried is about 5 minutes because she just gives up, but with my past girlfriend that was more than enough to give her a lot of pleasure. What can I do to give her some pleasure or make it feel good? I am really confused and am not sure what the problem is or what to try to give her pleasure. She kind of says that when im down there it doesn't really feel like anything. I could use some advice on how to make this work
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The best thing you can do is listen to what she says does it for her. Sexual activity is never solely physical. A lot of it is mental and it all involves a great deal of communication.
Talk to her. Find out what she likes and then experiment. There's very little that is easy about sexual relationships so it may take a few tries but she needs to give everything a chance before she gives up. It sounds as though she has already resigned herself to the idea of the things you have tried not working before you even really got started.
Keep trying. There will be ways to pleasure her but you both need to work together to find out what she likes, how she likes it and so on. You can make it a two way thing. Spend a weekend exploring each others bodies and what does it for each of you. I guarantee that you will feel a lot happier by the end of it.
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