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Confidence issues
Hi...im 17 female to begin with so i no im still young. but i have some real issues went i get intimate with a guy, if im friends with a guy i can talk to them easily and be totaly relaxed and myself but as soon as i start being in a relationship then thats when i become quiter and my personality does not shine through whatsoever. my mind also seems to go blank when im with them like i have to think of conversation and nothing comes out so then they think this is the real me even though i know im a fun girl and really friendly. i hate this and because i live in a fairly small town im worried that this has/will spread throughout the scene of people i want or do accosiate myself with. HHHEEELLLPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Greetings!!!
My name is Justin Taylor, I'm 18 years old, and I will be advising you today, I understand you completely dear, and it's not your fault, what you need to do is quite simple actually, be yourself, I know that is rather unoriginal, but if you say your a fun and friendly girl then well darn it BE A FUN AND FRIENDLY GIRL! I have a feeling that your mind goes blank because you don't want to say anything, "offensive or stupid" to damage the relationship, well my dear you took a risk getting into a relationship, time to take another by communicating! That is the only way you can tell if a relationship is going to work! COMMUNICATION! So the next time you get into a relationship, I want u to talk! just talk, about anything...don't be afraid, if the guy likes you, he will listen, and he most definatly wont find you stupid or whatever...I do wish you the best my dear!
-JT
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