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Don't know if I'm in it for the right reasons...
Hi, I am so confused. I don't know what i want half the time and the other half i don't know if it is the right thing to do, I know i'm probably overthinking it or something...anyways problem, i had a semi-serious relationship last year which got sort of messy towards the end, i just wanted to end it swiftly. the break up was not at all emotional for me, i guess i just turned off all emotions, it was really weird. awhile after the split i guess i started feeling the belated effects and the sadness started kicking in. lately i've been away from home so i'm missing people alot including the ex, and i only forget about the yearning when i'm distracted with other guys. i'm worried that i'm covering up the loneliness and replacing the 'void' with anyone who is just there. i'm a really out going person and i'm really social, i don't want another relationship to just 'happen' if i'm not ready or in it for the right reasons. I dont want to date someone just to have a boyfriend and risk potentially hurting someone. I want to like them for them, not use them as a common replacement.
sorry if my question was just a really long rant
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Erm,so I don't really get what the question is...so sorry if I don't answer it.
Since you got out of a semi serious relationship you might be on rebound. Erm since you can't stop thinking about your ex unless you're with another boy, just be friendly to your ex and talk to him. Who says that you guys can't be friends? Right..?
But remember, don't get back with him, he's your ex for a reason and if you want to go through what you guys went throuhg--again--well, that's up to you.
Instead of haning out with guys all the time, hang out with your girl friends. talk to them about it because that should help. tell them what you just told me and just get it all out...
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