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What should i do in my situation?
Im in high school. My 9th grade year i was dating this boy named Cj. He turned out to be a lying cheating jerk and dumped me on our anniversary. There was this boy named ben who basically would help me out when i was upset about cj. Well 10th came around and Ben and i started dating on and off for a year. We had problems with fighting alotso he broke up with me a week before my birthday. Well im having trouble trying to get over him. Im interested in other guys and im going out and having fun with my friends but i still cant get over him. what can i do to get over him?
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Like it or not, the age-old answer to that question is: Give it time. Although it's probably not what you are wanting to hear, it is the most effective. It's great that you are sourrounding yourself with friends and fun things to do.Try not to dwell so much on the fact that the two of you broke up, but rather that you were lucky enough to have that experience of that particular relationship. If it wasn't for that, you wouldn't be where you are now. You most likely have grown and matured quite a bit through this relationship and experience. Use it as a learning tool to help mold you for the next relationship that may come along. Don't be anxiously awaiting a new relationship, just focus on you. Since the new school year is here, join some clubs. Be active. Pick up a new hobby. Give yourself a makeover. Soon enough you will find yourself not being "down in the dumps". I'm not saying you can't be sad, or remember, but don't dwell. Everyone gets through it, you can too. :)
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