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friends with benifits...
ok, so theres this guy tahat i really like. i can tell that he likes me too. he always tickles me and everything. neither of us can date yet, parents, and hes a year oldr than me. lately we havent been talking cus of school and everything and he goes to a different school... but i want to be friends with benifits. how do i go along with telling him that? i cant just go up and be like hey i wana be your friend with benifits then kiss him. oh and by the way. we both havent ever kissed someone. not even eachother and i think that he wants to be my first and i wanna be his. oh and ther is also one other problem. he knows my brother. they dont get along because my brother thought that he was trying to get close to me for the wrong reasons and hit him in the jaw. it didnt hurt our friendship. nothing changed. my brother was being a lil op. so what do i do? how do i tell him and keep it from my brother if that is possible
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I am glad to hear what your intentions are and you sound very capable of keeping the relationship at your comfort level. Good luck!
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Your brother probably knows this guy a lot better than you do. What "wrong reasons" accounted for the hit in the jaw? Could it be your brother does not want this guy to use you? Sounds like you are willing to be used, hence the friends with benefits or should I say the I don't really know you or anything, but you are cute enough to sleep with. Hmmm...since you have not had sex or a real boyfriend yet, maybe you should put off the decision to start sleeping around with guys. You are not really friends, and there is no real benefit to opening your legs for a guy who does not care enough about you to commit. Sex is not something that is like holding hands and giggling about. It is serious body fluid exchanging, and opens you up for disease, pregnancy, cancer (caused by HPV or genital warts) and emotional damage. You are in charge of your own body, but you need to respect that power, and not lose sight of the risks of sex, when a hot guy comes into view. What ever happened to getting to know a guy, dating the guy, letting yourself enjoy the slow build-up of romance? Aren't you worth dating? Aren't you worth more than a quickie with no emotional attachments? I think you are.
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