|
my cousin is like attached to me...trying to get distance.
16/f
well my cousin is 15 turning 16 in october! but she is a grade below me. im in 11th and she is going into 10th. well we are "best friends" but cousins. and like the whole summer i was over at her house everyday or like with her. but then this past week or so i have been hangin out with different people and she still calls me and is like what are you doin tonight and im like im gonna hangout with my friend tara. and shes is like oh well would you want to sleepover tonight? and im like well i dont think i can because i dont have my car. and i feel bad that i cant but i dont really wanna because im starting to get sick of her (not to sound mean) but she doesnt have many friends really. only one other one that she hangsout with. well then she is like well call me tomorrow! its like she only wants to hangout with me but i want to start getting away from her and hangout with my other friends! =) so i dont know what to do. like i want to try and keep my distance for awhile but then if im not doing anything and she calls what do i do..
like i would want to hangout with her if i wasnt busy but we dont do anything everytime we go over there! we just sit there and watch tv or i watch her talk to people on the computer. we can never think of anything to do! so she is like uhh what do you want to do and im like i have no idea anymore..what do you want to do? and i think as a 16 year old i should be out doing other things and having fun rather than just sitting there the whole day! and sometimes she makes plans but things never work out.
i dont know...any suggestions?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
I'm sure you're having an awesome time being with her, but it's understandable that you have other friends, and maybe you should talk to her about it, and tell her that you have other friends too, and maybe invite her to go around with you and your friends, that way she may make some new friends too and it wouldn't be all about you 24/7 you know?
]
More Questions: |