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Excluding me
UGH. So i have 3 primary friend that i always hang out with (Lindsay, Cheyla And Chris)
So anyway I'm Free almost the ENTIRE week except for wendsays and they no that. So Lindsay has Skating on Tuesdays and thursdays and Cheyla has fieldhocky in the afternoons. Now Just cuz lindsay is busy tomorrow we arent going swimming but on wednsday They are because LINDSAY isnt busy.
I mean Jesus. Why cant they exclude lindsay for once? why is it ALWAYS me.
ITS ALWAYS ME ALLWAYS.
With my other friends in the past the same thing happens always and im SICK OF IT. I seriously dont know what to do about it honestly. I have the urge to just leave them period but i know wherever i go the same thing will happen. IM SICK OF IT HONEST TO GOD. I need sugestions. Should i just not chill with them for a while and see how things go or what?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Yeah, probably tell them how you feel, and then maybe they'll reconsider. But after you tell them, if they don't. Then they aren't great friends, but first consider your options, and maybe try to make new friends, outside of that group of friends.
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Maybe you could tell them how you feel. Tell them that it bothers you when they don't include you in things. Hopefully they will understand that it bothers you and make an effort to change it. Tell them that you are busy on Wednesdays and see if you could do it another day instead. If it continues to happen, then maybe you should do other things instead of hanging out with them. Don't be afraid to make other friends and hang out with them during the week. Also, why couldn't you hang out with just one of your friends instead of all three? Maybe you could invite one to go to the movies with you or something. Another idea would be to plan something fun on a certain day where you can all hang out. Make sure they all don't have plans and schedule it on that day.
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