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I can't get over this guy!
I've liked this guy for about 6-7 months. He likes me as a friend, but as far as I know, that's it. I want to get over him, I really do. But, last year, when I liked him more, I never saw him. NOW, that I wanna get over him, I have a class with him and see him in the halls a lot. That makes it even harder to get over him. Plus, I'm an optimist by nature and I guess I just keep thinking that there's some kind of hope that he could change. Anyway, what should I do? Thanks. :o]
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Hey,
Look, i have just one piece of advice to give you. If the guy is not intereted in being more than friends, than don't run after someone who will not lead you to anything.Because then you will just be wasting your time. And besides, why don't you try giving all this love to someone else who could actually be interested in being with you.I mean... there are millions of optimistic people and i am a prime example but when it comes to a situation like this, then we have to know how to differentiate, there is nothing to be optimistic or hopeful about here, because we are talking about love, he either loves you or not. And he just simply doesn't , then its his loss and he doesn't deserve you. I don't want you to hurt yourself or waste your time and thoughts on him, because there is much more to do and much more people to love. And he's not the last man on earth.
I do understand how its hard to get over it, but you must and you will. Just try not to talk to him at all, and don't look at him and totally ignore him and if you start thinking of him, occupy yourself with something else. You may find yourself dragging yourself behind him from time to time,but you'll get over it soon.
So take care and goodluck:)
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