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friend problem
okay sry in advance if this is long
a few weeks ago a few friends of mine went to this small party where there was drinking. well one of my friends/(kinda not) had gotten drunk for her 1st time ( i will call her rachel*) okay well and my other friend had just broken up with her boyfriend and she was my best friend so of coruse i was conferting her. so when we where headed back for my othe friends house i was hugging my friend (ill call her andrea*) well while i was hugging andrea rachel wasted comes up and startes trying to hug her and starts chokcing her and all of us other girls where trying to stop here well since andrea was crying when rachel finaly let go andrea started thorwoing up .. but while she was choking her i go to rachel i said "rachel stop! your choking her!" and she goes shutup! u slut! and shoves my face away. and then she kept on calling me this rude names and it wwas constant it was over and over again and i didnt know what to do. so once we got back to my friends hosue.. rachel desides to start doing it again.. so i was just egnoring her. then it was again.. so i kept on egnoring her while some friends where on my side saying thats wrong rachel shouldnt do that while another was just on both because she was watching out for rachel bc shes drunk. but anyways.. in the morning rachel starts asking me questions and i wouldnt awnser bc i wasnt guna talk to her.. (i wouldnt blame me) and then she starts saying how inconsiderate i was..? i dont know what i did wrong besdies egnor some one that was making fun of me and saying things that arent true. then about an hr later she says she didnt mean it. i didnt belive her bc the truth comes out when your drunk " a sober girls thougghts are a drunk girls words" then i egnored her for a cople of weeks then i go out a friday with my friends and i c her there. i egnor her .. then that night i get online and say sorry for being rude. and she said its alright. ? i was w8ting for her to say somehting back..? but then i said obvously u dont understand where im coming from. and then that night one of my good friends tells me that rachel was telling her a untrue story. so i got mad at confonted her and she goes thats funny i never said anything about you.. ? then signs off..?
cann you help mE? what am i suposed to do? i mean she use to be one of my good friends.. but lieing to me all these years? i mean i dont get it.. because we have had some bad times toegther like fights and stuf but i just thought it was jus teenage girls.. but this didnt seem like that.. this was bigger and i dont noe what to do
sorry again for it being long
thanx
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this is an easy one (even though its long) well when she signed off afterwards obviously shes hiding sumthing but i wouldnt let it get to me yah ok if she wants to be a good friend let her talk and listen but dont force conversation with her because obviously shes embarassed to tell the truth. but until then i'd hang out with my other friends and completely blow it off and when she IM's you to talk dont even bring it up let her bring it up when shes ready ... i know its pretty basic but hey its advice lol
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