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three years too long [?]
well, where to start. three years ago, i was in 8th grade, and i met this boy. of course 8th grade is still a young age to take love seriously, but this boy changed my perspective on that. we had dated from 8th grade to sophomore year where i broke it off due to rumors. the rumors got so out of hand it made us upset with one another. [the rumors were about him cheating on me, which turned out to be false] and so months later we found ourselves dating other people. when this summer we tried working on "us" again and well i thought for sure we were going to hit it off again. but he said that he was scared i would believe rumors and he didtn want me to hurt him again, blah. so then i find out a month later he is dating another girl. but yet he still tells me he loves me & that this is his way of trying to get over me. i am crazy about this kid, but i know i shouldnt be and i deserve better & what not. but i just cant seem to get past him. so i guess the point in trying to get across is should i wait for something to happen, obviously my heart is all for him, or what should i do so im not so miserable watching him with someone else. anything would help, thanks.
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I think your ex is not being sincere to you at all.
If he really loves you, then he should've broken up with his current girlfriend. It's unfair to stay with that girl if he's inlove with you.
And do you realize that he cheated on her current gf by confessing his feelings for you? That makes him perfectly capable of being unfaithful to you when you're back togeher.
And if it's true that he's just using this girl to get over you, think: Do you really want to be with someone who treats other people that way?
Hope I helped you a lil' bit.
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wow hard question!! he said hes scared if you hurt him again but you were both mutualy hurt!! so he needs to know that you were hurt just as much as he was! he says that he still loves you adn that and i think he mitew mean it still and he is goin out with the other girl because he hasent got you!(also i dont think the 8th grade is to young to fall in love it can happen anytime you start to get those feeling) i think if you sit down and talk to him that you still have very strong feelings for him and that you would like you ot to have another go at being together as long as you dont let rumors take over you relationship and be truthful to each other it can work you to hae a lot of history goin between ya
good luck hope it all works out perfect xx
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The first thing I suggest NOT doing...is dating another boy to get over him. Many people do this and it's unfair to whoever you date, because then you are just setting them up for heart break.
I would just say..keep living your life. If something happens then you can take it as...it's meant to be. But if it doesn't...as time goes by...you'll get over him.
Good Luck and I hope it works out,
Teacup
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