okay...heres my problem
i am 13 years old and i have a 16 year old boyfriend. he already wants to have sex and we've only been going out for a week.
he's been trying to get down my pants for a week now.
i don't like how he's doing this, but other than that i love him so much!
what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? xSharpiexLovex answered Wednesday August 9 2006, 12:21 am: youve been going out for a week, and he has been trying to get in your pants for a week...so basicly your saying since you started going out, thats all he has been interested in..? you could not possibly be in love with this guy! first of all, [ok i know this isnt what you were hoping to hear] but really, he is too old for you, right now. second, it seems all you are to him is sex. he only wants you for your body...now dont get me wrong, i dont know the guy, i could be totally off, but judging on what you told me, that is what it seems like...a booty call. [ok are you a virgin? if you are, do NOT i repeat NOT lose your virginity to this guy, you-will-regret-it. youre only thirteen] honestly, you should really get rid of this guy, he-is-not-worth-it! hes just another horny guy, all he wants is SEX S-E-X that is ALL he wants ok? anyway if you still wont get rid of him, honestly just tell him youre not ready for this, tell him, "we've only been going out for a week, now do you love me or just my body." but let me warn you, if you dont give him what he wants [sex] he will get it from someone else, thats right, he will cheat on you [if he doesnt dump you right away] but ya chances are he will cheat on you sooner or later, he wants sex so he will go find it. ok im sorry if this wasnt the advice you were hoping for, but trust me, it is good advice. [ xSharpiexLovex's advice column | Ask xSharpiexLovex A Question ]
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