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cheating
ive been goin out w/ my gf for about 6 months now. but yesturday i heard from 3 people that she liked this other guy from her church but she wont admit it can someone give me a good way to make her confess that she does like someone else
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just because she looks at another guy doesnt mean its cheating dont even tell me you dont look at other girls even when you have a gf because dammit if you didnt id be worried lol so i wouldnt worry about it unless if shes doin stuff with him.
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maybe she really doent like him.
and if shes just crushing, its not cheating.
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Maybe those 3 people are very jealous that you 2 are so happy together, so they planned to break you guys up. Even if they are your BEST friends, I still wouldn't completely believe it. I would sit her down and talk to her. Make her swear on her life that she didn't do it. Tell her you really care about her and love her so much and maybe then she'll tell you the truth. If she tells you she doesn't like him, she may not be lying. You're going to have to use clues and witnesses to decide for yourself if she's cheating or if she's innocent. Accusing isn't a good idea. If she's been acting different to you lately and hasn't talked to you as much or acted different, there's a hint she MIGHT be cheating. You have to take that chance whether she's lying or not. Remember, part of a good relationship is having trust. Trust her until you have complete proof she's cheating. Unless you see her making out with this guy from church, you can't say shes cheating.
Hope I was helpful.
[naturally_sadie]
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Well, how valid are your three sources? If not, it'll be mighty silly going around accusing her of something that is not true.
Tell her you heard that she has a crush on someone else, and that you feel she owes it to you to tell you something like this.
If she doesn't admitt it, then it's up to you to decide whether or not she is lying or not.
Good Luck.
-Teacup
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hey, what you hear sometimes isnt true. it sounds like you already questioned her about it. maybe you went about it all wrong? if you said something like "i heard you like someone else come on now admit it" thats wrong. say to her "i heard from the some friends that you like someone from your church, is it true?". also explain to her that if she tells you that she does you will not get mad. tell her that in the end it will ebe better for the both of you. also tell her that you might have to breakup with her if she does like someone else, and that it would be easier just to tell you if she does.
-caitt♥
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