ive been having trouble gettign a boyfriend lately. i ve been flirtin and tellin guys i like them but 4 sum reason all they see me as is there buddy. i play basketball with them and i think thats why. i try not 2 b 2 guyish around them cuz i dont want 2 b just there buddy but it doesn;t work. how can i get past the buddy barrier?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? 0xJackie answered Monday August 14 2006, 3:15 am: well if you want to be past "buddy barrier" you need to just stick with one guy you like. that is most likely why they see you as [just a friend.] if you stick to a guy and get to know him, tell him you like him; and all that good stuff then he might just wake-up and realize that you like him. but untill then hangin with all of them will just make it seem like ya like spendin time with all the guys. be careful though hunny. try not to seem desperate though, sometimes you need to let the boys come to you. <3`xx. [ 0xJackie's advice column | Ask 0xJackie A Question ]
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