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Changing from friends to more


Question Posted Thursday August 3 2006, 1:40 pm

I have been friends with a guy, Justin, for two years. We have always been good friends but this summer we started to hang out a LOT and I like him a lot (as more than a friend)

I suspected that he liked me too, and two days ago when he asked who I liked I told him that I liked him. And he said he likes me too.

Since then we have hung out twice (with other people too) and we always walk with eachother, tease eachother (as usual) and hug when we leave. However, I'm afraid that nothing will happen between us if it doesn't happen soon.

Should I make a move? If so what could I do?
Will it just happen with time?

If I don't see him tonight I won't for two weeks because I am going on vacation.

I think it would be amazing if we dated and that it would last a really long time, and I already know he likes me too. He doesn't even talk to other girls when I'm with him.


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Xenolan answered Thursday August 3 2006, 5:00 pm:
Next time you get him alone, say this word for word:

"Justin, I've been thinking about you a lot. I've been thinking about kissing you."

(step very close to him at this point and look him in the eyes, then whisper the next part)

"Would you, please? Kiss me?"

(close eyes and wait)


You will get kissed, 99.5% guaranteed.

If he says no, he's likely gay. Feel free to write off the idea of a romantic relationship at that point.

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jasonheartyou11 answered Thursday August 3 2006, 4:43 pm:
well, maybe he isn't ready for a relationship with you and he is scared that if yall go out then when you guys break up then yall wouldn't be that good of friends anymore. It has happened to me before[im actually in the same situation right now]

But just give him time and make the best of it.

plz rate

<3/suzanner

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advicecutie22 answered Thursday August 3 2006, 3:51 pm:
Go for it! Ask him out if that's what you want you know he likes you too so there is nothing to lose. If you believe that it will last a long itme and be great then take the chance I mean the worst thing that could happen is him say no! GOOD LUCK
~Morgan

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