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confused!!
im 16 years old and i really like this one guy, we do stuff together but dont go all the way (sex)! he says he doesnt want a girlfriend but also tells me he likes me.
-what should i do cause i really like him and at the same time would love to have a boyfriend???
-is it ok to keep doing things with him???
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It sounds to me like he doesn't want a commitment. Give him credit for honesty, because some guys would pretend to want the commitment just to get the sex.
Whether you stay with him depends on whether you can deal with those terms. Presumably, when he says he doesn't want a girlfriend, he means he wants to be free to date other girls. Can you handle that? Whatever "stuff" you're doing, bear in mind that he may be doing the same "stuff" with other girls me might date.
If you want an exclusive relationship and he doesn't, that's a basic incompatibility. In that case, be grateful that you can both be up front with each other choose your future.
I would recommend that you don't have sex without that commitment. It is my opinion that sex really requires the intimacy and trust that comes with a one-on-one, exclusive relationship. Consider it this way: whatever he does with you without committing to a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, he may also be doing with other girls. You should clarify whether he feels it's all right to do that, and if he does, you would probably be well-advised to move on.
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STOP NOW!!! he says he dosent want a gilfried so i dont think that the feelings you have for him are mutual and all hes duing is just getting a bit of plessure!! hes using you stop right now! waite for the right boy who will treat you right!
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NOO!!quit doing stuff with him...if that is all he wants he is going to either get you pregnant one day or give you an std...you need to find a guy who wants a relationship and not sex!
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