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the boyfreind thing is all fixed


Question Posted Friday July 28 2006, 8:03 pm

ok so well um i decided i was not ready since every thing is going on at home i dont have the time or love3 for a boy freind it worked out perfectly tho cause he broke up with me cause um i geuss i have been mean lately so it helped figure rejection doesnt always hurt really bad but the reason i am messed up is cuz i have shed more tears in the past 2 months than in my life it is partly because my mom she lefft me a few years ago with my dad and now she never talks to me or any thing and she constantly lies and it really hurts and now my sis has moved in with me and my dad and his girlfreind has too and we also moved to calgary from reddeer and that was the only true place i felt happy but i didnt want to hold my dad back and i am just not feeling myself lately

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bettyboopstr answered Saturday July 29 2006, 1:25 pm:
It's tough that your mom left but do know this, it her problem and not yours. She isnt ready to be a mother while you sound definitely ready to be a good daughter. It sounds like you Dad is also trying to move on but perhaps is forgetting about his little girls feelings. Either way, you are the child and he is the adult and while some of their decisions are childish you still have to follow suit. My cousin had the same thing happen to him and the whole family was quite shocked because while growing up she loved him dearly and then one day she vanished. All this happened when he was also 12 or so. Every year goes by and I see him gain more strong because he is very close with his father. Perhaps you could gain strength from your sister. Hopefully you can ban together and make life good again. One thing is for sure and that is that God loves you and I dont know if you go to church but maybe you ought to seek out some friends that do go. This will give you more peace than you can imagine and it will fill that void. God has a plan for you and he is making you a very strong individual, go to him.

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