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Blind Date
Ok so I'm going on a blind date today except I know who I'm going with and I know what he looks like, and he is smoldering hot. Whereas I am so-so.
My friend and his girlfriend wanted to go doubled-dating so she picked smolderinghot guy and my friend picked me.
I really want him to like me though, I'm a little shy. Does anyone have any tips on how to deal with a really hot, really popular guy? My friend's girlfriend says he's really sweet but I'm intimidated.
So any advice other than just be myself? Thanks in advance.
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don't be intimidated. that's the worst thing that you could possibly do. like you said, be yourself. sorry to add that in here. but with the hot guys- don't let him know you're intimidated. that'll make things weird. just relax, and don't do anything you wouldn't normally do. if it helps- pretend he isn't nearly as hot as he is. when you look at him, just put the looks aside.
hope i helped!
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he's probably nervous too! think about it... he doesn't really know what to expect either! okay, so if he's sweet then it will be easy for you to talk to him and get to know him. in my eyes, it's better for you to talk a lot than to not talk at all because then it might be awkward for you too. then again, it's a double date, so it's not like it's ever going to be silent. he's going to be interested in your personality, hobbies, whatever, so don't hold back! ask him about his favorite things to do, sports he plays, his family, pets, stuff like that. this is going to sound really random, but you could always watch mtv... they have shows about blind dates and stuff and you can kind of see different examples of what you could talk about. don't try too hard to come up with something to say, though, just say whatever comes to mind! he's not going to analyze everything that comes out of your mouth so if you say something stupid then chances are he won't even notice. he's probably just as worried about saying something stupid. be yourself and have fun! and don't forget to smile :)
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Well first of all he probably is just as nervous! Also if you go into this seeing him as really hot and really popular you are ignoring the person beyond the outside. Talk to him like you would to your friend, make jokes, ask him about himself, his likes/dislikes. The key is to keep it really light and casual. Do not talk about serious stuff!!
I have poled most of the teens I work with and asked what they look for in a girl and 95% of them said that while yes they had to be attracted the most important thing is sense of humour and the ability to make others laugh! So Chillax and make it funny, and light!
Hope this helps
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i think that you should just be yourself and he will like you for you.
-social butterfly.
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Just be yourself. If he doesnt like you for who you are then forget about him. You will find someone better. Dont try to act like someone you're not.
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