in the third grade i switched teachers because my assigned class was full and in my original classs was a super cute boy. in the fourth grade a boy grabbed a piece of paper and had to lean across from me. in the fifth grade this boy was in my class.
i was a "nerd" in fifth grade and he was a cool kid. and we would occasionally joke around and make fun of eachother. then in the sixth grade i found out he lived right down the road from me and hung out iwth my best guy friend. [oh and in middle school i wasnt a nerd anymore i had "popular" friends but stayed true to the original few] i sometimes ran into this boy at my bestfriends house. because they lived across the street from oneanother. then those two stopped being friends and that kinda limited me from seeing the boy. ever since 5th grade i developed a crush on him. and so did EVERYONE else. and i would help my two best freinds with their realitionship issues with him, never telling them my feelings. well they have both moved on from a MAJOR crush and i havent. in the summer before seventh grade i CONSTANTLY hung out iwth him and our other friends [one girl and two guys] and we kissed once during truth or dare. he would always make my friend [the girl] call me to tell me to come over and he would always im me and just compliment me and be so amazing. then in the beginning of seventh he told me friends if i asked him out he would totallly go out iwth me. and i was sooooo happy. but i oculdnt do it i wanted him to. then he would always high five me inthe hallway even infront of his friends and talk to me on the bus and just wow. then he made new friends and i dont know if they turned him against me or wat but im going into ninth grade and havent talked to him in months. honestly, i know i love this kid. i see him in theh allway or even in the class we shared togethre and he looks at me then to the floor. we both have had realitonships since this, but idk.. its love for me .. what should i do please help. i just want to be friends atleats, im not asking to end up marying this guy..i just want that high five in the hallway back..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BEAUTiFUL_LOVEx answered Tuesday July 25 2006, 2:42 pm: First of all, i think its VERY cute how you have liked this boy for A VERY LONG time. It shows that you do reaaaally care about him.
If i was you i would start trying my hardest to talk to him & stuff again. Maybe have a small get together at your house before school starts & make sure he can come, then invite a few of his friends & a few of yours (that dont like him) that way you guys can all hang out, it wont be awkward & you'll def. talk to him.
But i might be kind of weird to just all of a sudden invite him over, so i would def. just start making small talk w/ him again first. Just start asking him about whats been going on like if he plays a sport - hows it going .. or like something like that. You could even say "hey i havent talked to you in forever, how have you been" if you guys both have im that might be easiest.. but i dont know how much you go on the computer or how much he does during the summer. Plus since its summer i can see how it'd be harder to see him, maybe ask someone that talks to him to have a small get together & that way you both are invited & you'll see him. Or simply have one of your friends call him & be like "do you remember _______ (your name), shes here right now here you can talk to her" hahah anything. But make sure you start talking to him, and then start hanging out w/ him.
Hopefully you'll get whatever you had back. :]
Hopefully that helped. Goood Luck ♥ [ BEAUTiFUL_LOVEx's advice column | Ask BEAUTiFUL_LOVEx A Question ]
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