Last Saturday night I was drinking with 7 guys. Five of them were 18 and two are my age. I like one of the guys who is my age. I was stupid and made a bet with one of the older guys about who could stay up longest. If I fell asleep first we would kiss. The thing is I won the bet and never fell asleep at all but he did. When he woke up I asked him what time it was and he came over and started making out with me. Then 3 times later during the night we frenched even though I didn't want to because the guy I liked was sleeping on me. I thought I liked the older guy at the time but now he is like.. in love with me. I have been avoiding him since because he graduated, has his own place, has his own car, etc and is way too old for me.
He just told me on msn to call him and gave me his number but I am 'away' so I will pretend I didn't get the message.
Should I continue to ignore him until I start going out with the guy I like? I don't want to hurt his feelings. We have only ever met once so I don't feel comfortable having a whole 'I don't like you in that way..' conversation. I know it was a mistake to make out with him but usually that's not a big deal.
Thanks!! :)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kick_me answered Saturday July 22 2006, 6:54 am: first of all i dont mean to be mean or rude but you should go out with a bunch of older guys and drink thats dangerous and you shouldt make out with some guy you dont like or dont even know....just tell him that you like him alot as a friend or take out the alot part out if you want, and that you think hes to old and its just not gonna work for you ..say something like your parents wont allow it im sure he will get the point dont say you like someone else that is just a slap in the face right there [ kick_me's advice column | Ask kick_me A Question ]
No_such_thing_as_self answered Saturday July 22 2006, 2:28 am: Well, You shouldnt make out with people when you dont like them. Its a type of lying, and since you lied he`s getting the wourg idea. You could say you like someone else. And im sure he`ll get the idea. And dont be careless when you drink! I`ve seen alot of bad shit happen and had to do alot of stuff i didnt want to do because of people drinkin. [ No_such_thing_as_self's advice column | Ask No_such_thing_as_self A Question ]
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