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the one who asked about whipped cream and cherry
hey, yupp its me again, but you've helped me with this guy so far, so I figured you would be my go-to person whenever in need of help with this specific person..
so we've been sending cute flirty texts like that for a while, and these two last nights we've had flirty IM sessions, but now I did something way stupid.. as you've probably noticed by now, I try really hard to be funny with this guy.. why? because it is a well known fact that his ex girlfriend is like a total comdeian! and I know for a fact he cares alot about a girls sense of humour, ofcourse.. why wouldnt he? thats what i care about too! So while trying to show him my funny side, i figured id answer one of those chani-letters were you write answeres for questions like "current crush" "colour of underware" "last thing written" etc etc, just stupid questions basically, BUT while doing this, I got stuck with no way to write anything funny, so I found a person on xanga who answered that same questionnaire..so I copied some of her answers. After sending it to ..well about everyone I know. I noticed, to my horror, that I had forgotten to remove that last part she wrote "haha have a good week ya'll, LOVE ALEXANDRA" needless to say, I AM NOT ALEXANDRA!
BIG MISTAKE -- trust me when i saiy i learned from it, im not doing that agin.,..but what do I do now?? talking about it is just embarrising!! i refuse to do that!! but just avoiding the sunject and pretending its nothing is lame too! this has ruined everything now cause i feel like all i wanna do is leave the country and never see him again!! when last night all i could think about is how i wanna be with him forever :( whyyy would this happen?? oh gossh, what should I do??
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Hey again. Ill be your go to person. I love helping people..and especially with INTERESTING problems I actually have experience with. Im going through the whole text flirting thing right now, too. :] Great isnt it? Yet, hard!
Anyway. Its okay! No need to leave the country! This is a common mistake..Ive done it a lot. Its not a really big deal because you can make up an excuse. Did you already tell him the truth? If you havent already, dont! He doesnt need to have a conversation with you about why it says love alexandra or whatever. This is something thats OKAY to lie about because it wont hurt anyone. You could tell him that you meant to copy a cute smiley face but you accidently copied that instead and sent it. You could tell him that you were writing that to a friend on Instant messenger as a joke you were playing on her but you werent looking and wrote it in the questionnaire and didnt even notice until it sent. You could say..I was just testing you to see if you actually read it, silly! You could make a joke out of it and be like, Well at least you know my name. Hes a guy so he probably wont grill you about it or even notice! I mean what are the chances that hes going to guess that it appeared there because you copied a survey because you didnt know what to say and you were trying to impress him. Really. I think youre over reaccting, which is totally normal. Everyone does it, just dont get yourself all upset over it because it'll drive you crazy! If you are really upset about it, you can tell him. He probably wont even understand (guys are CLUELESS.) I wouldnt suggest going that route because it might make things REALLY awkward but I have a feeling with time it'll all blow over. He probably has forgotten about it! I dont think this will ruin it all..I think it'll take a lot more time than that. Always here if you need me! Good luck.
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