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i need alot of advice, really worried.


Question Posted Thursday July 20 2006, 3:38 pm

well everytime my boyfriends fingers me i have blood spots in my underwear, and the next day i have it too. if i dont get fingered i dont bleed. this been going on for weeks now. is it normal? im due for my period soon, but a while ago i wasnt and i still bled. my period should be here but yesterday before my boyfriend fingered me i saw a brownish discharge in my underwear. was that a sign of my period? when he fingered me he had some brown stuff on his hand! what was that? am i normal. PELASE HELP soon!!!!!

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Melody answered Thursday July 20 2006, 5:27 pm:
After a girl gets fingered for the first time, she usually bleeds. The factor for this is usually that he broke her hymen. AKA, he popped her cherry. I will admit that I have never heard of it happening evertime a girl gets fingered, but i'm sure there is plenty of reasons as to why it's happening. Does he have long fingernails? He could be ripping your vagina walls. Or maybe he's being to rough with you. How many fingers does he use? How big are his fingers? I'm sure it's nothing to worry about though. As for the brown discharge in your underwear and on your boyfriends fingers, it's usually because you are about to start or end your period. Check with your OBGYN if you have any further concerns. You also need to consider gonorrhea if you are sexually active. It probably isn't, but it's worth looking into just in case. But over all, i'm sure everything is fine.

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NiCOLELYNNxo answered Thursday July 20 2006, 5:13 pm:
Well basically if he fingered you & went really far it hit your hymen & you lost your virginity. Because as most people know when you have sex you bleed. I don't know what the brown stuff is. Lol.
But if i were you i would tell him to just stop fingering you for a while & maybe just not do it.
He could have given you an STD but i don't know.
I don't know much about this stuff because im only 15..
Well i hope i helped you out a little.
Nicole Lynn

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kaity answered Thursday July 20 2006, 4:46 pm:
If your boyfriend has long fingernails he might be scratching the inside of your vagina. It also could be that your hymen (cherry) rips more and more everytime you get fingered. I do not know if it is normal, but I do know that sparatic periods are normal for all women. I believe that about 90% of women don't have a normal 28 day cycle. Sometimes, blood has more of a brownish color if it gets older. This is normal, however there is a chance that you might have a blockage or clot in the tubing that allows the blood to flow out of you during menstruation, but your symptoms seem highly unlikely for that because that usually involves missing periods frequently and constantly having your period start and stop for no reason. There is no harm in going to the gynecologist just to be on the safe side, but it sounds like it is pretty normal to me. Hope this information helps!

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