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Question Posted Thursday July 20 2006, 2:48 pm

you answered this question..
does anybody know what love is? i have my own ideas about it, but i want to hear everyone
elses oppinion. So give me your definition of love, because i want to put them all together and come up with one definition!
thanks so much :)

This is an intresting question. alright, my definition of love... I think when you're in love with somebody, that one person can give you that feeling nobody else can give you...the one where your heart stops and you cant breath. and when they talk to you, you cant take your eyes off of them...heck, even when hes not talking to you, you cant take your eyes off of him. that one person that when he touches you, even if you just brush shoulders, you get shivers down your back, and when he looks at you, and you make eye contact, you freeze and cant move. you melt in his presence. That one guy that you can see being married to in your future. not the guy that you pass between math and History class and you cant talk to because hes "above you". not the guy across the class room you stare at all day. that one guy that you can talk to, but can also take your breath away. but you have to be able to imagine you two getting married and being open, you cant be nervous, because it wont last.

and listen to the dictionary, Friends before love.

I hope i helped.

well anyways, i feel everything you mentioned for this one guy, but he's my ex, and he broke up with me about a year ago, and i still feel the same way when i see him in the hallways at school and stuff. so basically what i'm asking is will this ever go away? and how can i feel all of this stuff when he doesn't feel it back? i know you'll probably say that someone you like doesn't have to like you back, but if you've ever been in love and have experianced these feelings, maybe you'll be able to give me a different answer. thanks so much!


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Patron_saint_of_Squirrels answered Thursday July 20 2006, 8:11 pm:
well, the feeling will go away, but it probably wont until you find another guy that makes you feel special, or makes you feel better than your ex does. and that guy is out there somewhere, just look at it this way, your prince got lost, and is too stubborn to ask for directions.

yeah, I know the feeling you're having, and I dont know if he has a girlfriend now, or if you still have serious feelings for him, or if its a case of, I only feel like that when hes around her, or what. but its probably either Jelousy (which i doubt, you dont seem to sound like that.) or you simply still have feelings for him. and theres no garentee that he doesnt still have feelings for you, guys dont express their feelings because of the other male role models now days, they dont show feelings, so they dont talk about it to try and seem (in 70s terms) macho.

I really hope i helped, if you need any more help, please drop me a question, or IM me.

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