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Question Posted Thursday July 20 2006, 12:31 pm

About 8 months ago (in two days) I started going out with my recent boyfriend. I loved him alot and he knew that, and he seemed to love me too. He had broken up with me a couple of times to go back out with his ex and when he realized that didn't work he came back to me. We were doing great until he started talking to his ex again. Then other night he called me while I was talking to a friend. He told me that he had been doing cocaine and I got mad at him. I had every right to be because one, he's doing drugs, and two, he told me that he'd be home in a couple of hours cuz he had to run to the store real fast and he was gone for 6 hours out doing cocaine. But anyways, I got mad and he started complaining about how his ex made hiim the way he is. The way he doesn't like to tell people how he feels and how he never shows his emotion and how he still loves her and he probably always will. So I tell him that I don't think we're working out and we need a break to straighten our stuff out. Then later he called me and asked me how I could do it to him and why I would hurt him when I knew he loved me and I loved him. He got upset and told me he was going to bed and he'd talk to me about it today. Well, its today. And I had called him a couple of times this morning and no one answered. Then he signed on and he got mad and blocked me. So I called him and he told me to never talk to him again. And now I feel like a huge idiot because I loved him and now he thinks that I don't want him in my life, when I do. I love him alot. And I need to know what I should do. Should I just move on and forget about him? Should I do everything I can to get him back? Should I just leave him alone and see if he comes back and talks to me?


I just have no clue.


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karenR answered Thursday July 20 2006, 1:43 pm:
I think you need to move on.

I know you don't want to but so long as he is addicted to coke he is not going to be much good to you. It will always come first, not you.

So, unless he successfully goes through rehab I would have nothing more to do with him. He just has to many problems.

Find someone who puts you first. You will be much happier. :)

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