My name is Nickie i'm a 13 yr old girl.Ok, I started going out with this guy named A.J.(13)
He was so amazing and I think I really loved him, but..... he was being a little bit of a jerk. Like when I would call because he would ask me to call him back he would always be like, "What do YOU want?" And just childish stuff. So I broke up with him. Then I started going out with my next boyfriend Clarence(14), after 2 mths. Well, I have really fallen for him, but all my friends say he's cheating on me and we're drifting apart....so I'm starting to fall for my old bf again and I really miss him, but I'm pretty sure he wont take me back. So, someone PLEASE help me...I dont know what to do.....
DefinedEyes answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 9:15 pm: Oh hun,
Dont go back to your ex, and just be single for a little bit. You probably miss your ex because if your other boyfriend is cheating on you, you dont want to end up alone.
But truth be told your thirteen, and thats quite a young age to be worrying about relationships. I know it feels like your mature enough and everything since your probably in like what? 7th grade? I remember being in that grade - thinking I was everything.
Anyways, I suggest just moving on. I know its really hard, because if all your friends say your boyfriend is cheating on you, its most likely the truth. It happens a lot that we jsut dont want to see the truth, but end up seeing it when we get hurt. Be careful with your feelings and who you trust them to.
falling_away_from_me answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 8:05 pm: all i have to say is dont fall for the ex boyfriend cause then you will just end up feeling bad because he is childish and dumb and doesnt know how to treat a girlfriend...as for the current boyfriend... tell him for go trip over a rock and piss his pants because you really dont need to be cheated on..(if he is cheating on u)and if he isnt talk to him more.. see what the hell he is doing and try to see why yall are drifting apart...umm yeah that basically all i can think of.. haha [ falling_away_from_me's advice column | Ask falling_away_from_me A Question ]
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