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Boyfriend advice and what he thinks
hi i am the girl who wrote you the letter about the way my boyfriend talks to me tells me f off etc and he keeps telling me that he gonna marry me but i can't beleive him...etc so than you answered and i asked you something else and i asked could it be that he don't wanna loose me and he afraid that someone gonna take me away from him so what can you say about that... oh and by the way i added you to msn my msn name is royalprincess_15_771@hotmail.com k bye
~royalprincess~
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Thanks for the clarification hun :) Now I know what you are talking about.
Maybe he's afraid of loosing you because deep down he knows he shouldn’t be treating you the way he is.
Maybe he even knows some of what he is saying is pure bullshit and you aren’t buying it all. Maybe he’s terrified that you will figure he out mean he is being and that you can't really trust what he says and leave him.
So yes, I bet he is afraid of loosing you. Maybe he should be.
The fact is none of his feelings, not his love for you or his fear of loosing you, can justify him treating you badly and playing with your emotions like he is. It really doesn’t matter what he is ‘thinking’ or why he is doing what he is doing: What he is doing is mean and there is no reason you need to put up with it.
So stop worrying about what he is thinking or feeling. You aren’t happy right? I wouldn’t be happy if my boyfriend talked to me like yours does. If you aren’t happy you need to worry about fixing that for you, so you can trust your boyfriend and you can know that he treats you with respect.
It doesn’t really matter why he is playing these games with you. They need to stop. You need to tell him to stop hurting you.
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