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Question Posted Saturday July 15 2006, 11:45 pm

ok well i want to know if im going out with this guy or not?! well to start he was my ex and when i got a new boyfriend well we talked alot about him about us and what would happen if i did this and that. Well i broke up with my bf b.c i was over him didnt like him and the next day i iwanted to kiss the guy and i did and it felt so rite like i didnt think it would i thought i loved him before but he was also my first bf ever so who doesnt the guy broke up with me first b.c well we onl talked online and we saw eachother ever once a week so i understood it was like a month thing so i was super sad! Well the day i kissed him we were talking on the phone and the subject came up that are we goiing out? and i was like omg i dont want to go through that stupid mopy stage when we break up and the feeling that i HAVE to see him so you know we are like tight so we like read eachothers mind and he brought it up first(thank goD) and he said lets just like not go through that again but we can see eachother and cant go out with any other person so we sorta are going out but we say no we arnt but see that was a long time ago so i dont know what he thinks now about it so its been like i think 2 months!! and i can like tell him any thing and everything and we kid with eachother somethimes its not funny but well so i talk to him now everyday on the phone and IM and its great i think i really love him i mean hes not sexsual like most guys hes sensitive and hes everything i wanted in a guy. my brothers and sisters say that hes ugly and how do i like him and they make fun of him and i well i just dont care i like him that much so am i in love? or is it nothing just a huge crush? and today we had this carnivile thing and he never had a canoli before and i was like what itallian never had a canoli so i bought him one and he liked so he said and then he won me somethig so next time i see him ill get to know what i got but my other ex got me a tiger and he said he didnt get me a tiget because of my ex i think hes so sweet and he doesnt wan to go far like rite away i mean like he wants to wait!!! kissing iss great for him and when we are older we will get all the way hopefully so do you think ill stay with him long? and how do i tell him how i really feel cuz i tried once and i couldnt explain why i really like him! and should i say that i love him or do i even love him and if i do should i tell him because we usually say on line (lyl) things like that or i heart you but i iwant to tell him in person eye to eye contact what if he doesnt say it back what do i do?

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icey0990 answered Sunday July 16 2006, 11:11 am:
Hey! :)

to your first question if you really love him or not:
- Dont let anyone in the world tell you if you are in love or not. Only you know if you are in love. If you feel it in your heart and you know you love him..then you are in love. Dont listen to the people who say you are too young

to your next question asking if i think you will stay together that long:
- Its definately possible! It sounds like you two have awesome chemistry. I wish i could see the future for you but i cant lol..but it definately sounds like you guys could be together for awhile! :)

to the question asking him how to explain how you feel:
I know how you feel! You tried explaining it before but you couldnt..so my advice is to maybe explain it in another way. Maybe by writing a poem or love letter. You can give it to him in person and say to him everything how i feel about you is in here.
OR you can express it in words. One night write down on paper all the things that drives you wild about him. This will help you organize your thoughts about him. Then the next day you will know how to word it.

Tell him how you feel! If you read my column there was a recent question about a girl who didnt love her bf the way he loved her, but she still liked him a lot! If he doesnt feel the same way its ok! He OBVIOUSLY likes you a lot though! (i bet he will say i love you back though sweetie!) So i hope all this helped..please let me know how it goes! IM me anytime on eatapasty
<33 melissa

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