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I have... confronted her i mean... all she does is deny it and gets mad.. acts hurt a little.. but thats doesnt help at all.. little things i pick up on that could or could not be somethin like the fact that she acts hurt because i think shes cheating but never does anything.. i would be beyond mad if she accused me of that.. any other girl i would probably dump.. also one time her friend told me she was cheatin with a certain friend of theres.. i did break up with her over it because her friend had very convincing arguments.. my gf was mad at her friend for about half a day and then slowly started to forgive her.. by about the third day all was forgiven.. now i know girls relationships and thier friends differ from guys.. BUT.. she says she loves me more than anything and before things got so bads we were making plans to move in together and get married in the next year or so.. im 20 btw, shes 18.. point is she says her friend is completly full of shit.. and after she started to cry i came back to her like normal.. but if she really was faithful and her friend split us up like that with the fact at how much shes supposed to love me... would you still have that same friend?? i might have murdered somone under those circumstances.. im sorry i know ive written quit a bit for one message.. real question r i guess is.. everytime ive ever tried to talk to her about anything she gets all indignant and mad and i dont get anywhere.. she thinks that if i loved her as much as i say i do.. i wouldnt ask these questions and if i had to id be happy with a simple yes or no answer.. and beyond thats just thin ice.. how am i supposed to go about fixing anything under those circumstances?
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yes or no question i wouldnt like anything but the whole stroy(the truth about it) in that situation i ca relate to. i have and still am going through this with my bf. he accuses me cheating and thinks i would stuff like that when it isnt even like that. you need to sit her down adn explain to her everything and how you feel about it all.i mean if you keep going like this there is no point of a realtionship. why waste your time if she doenst want to listen to you and understand anything you say you know..you can keep going in a realtionship that is making you unhappy. that isnt healthy. if nothing changes you have to leave. it isnt a good idea to stay it will be bad for you and her.like the say to noe if somone really loves you let them go and if they come back then it is true love.
look her in her eyes and talk to her from the bottom of your heart if she cant do the same thent there is something wrong.
about the friend.
i had a friend that actually broke me and my bf up because of the fact that he found out that she hates me adn she was my best friend and knew everythin about it but we got back and didnt worry about but now. i dont talk to her. only hi bye and thats it.a true friend respects any desecion you make good or bad, they should support you and help you out. mine didnt so i let her go. ever since i did that my life has been stress less. i wanted to kill my friend(just like you said) but i didnt instead i let her go. it is possible that her friend was telling the truth or it could be a lie. the only way for you to know is if you see it with your own eyes. next time something like that happens tell her friend to prove it to and to show the evidence and not just tell you.
sorry it is long but i had so much to say that i could hel;p myslef.=)
♥ Steph
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