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ive really fallen for him..hard. =( it SUCKS....


Question Posted Thursday July 13 2006, 7:16 pm

allright..

so im 16/f and there is this guy. im really starting to like him but i havent told anyone yet because he just recently got a girlfriend =( hes so confusing but i dont want to give up on him! i cant! you see heres some of the story. i hungout with him yesterday with him and his friend and then my friend. well we all know each other so yeah but whatever. im always over at my friends house and thats her neighbor the kid i like. and so yesterday he came over for a little bit and then we were all on the bed and like i was laying inbetween him and my friend and me and the kid i like say we are best friends and then something happened like i dont know he was looking at me or something and my friend is like or are you sure you arent friends with benefits haha! and he didnt deny it so i was like hmm...and then he came back again at night. when we were inside at my friends house we were flirting big time. like we were downstairs and my friend was on the computer and then it was me and him and i grabbed the remote and hes like come on kristen give me the remote please =) and im like nope! your not getting it and i stuck it inside my skirt and so then i was laying down on my stomach on the floor and he comes over and like starts grabbing me underneath trying to get the remote and he gets it and then he was sitting on the floor so i go over there and im like on top of him saying give it to me! and he starts laughing and is like give you what lol. so then i give up and sit on the couch. but then his girlfriend calls and he throws me the remote and im like woww this ruined everything! i mean i understand its his girlfriend he is gonna talk to her! but its just like we were flirting two minutes ago but then hes always like i wanna see alyssa (his girlfriend) sometimes it seems like he likes me or is attracted to me but then ..he loves his girlfriend! ughhh. it kills me inside to know that i cant have him. i see him at least..4 times a week. i know crazy! the only thing i doubt is that him and his girlfriend will break up soon because he really likes her! i dont know what to do.. keep on flirting? maybe he will start liking me? maybe he already kinda does? but his girlfriend is so pretty and he really likes her. like on myspace his gf is like i love you! and hes like i love you more and im like ahh this hurts. i know i cant change anything between them but i wish i could just be with him <3 everytime i hear that they are going to be hanging out im like ..hurt inside and so jealous! this might sound stupid but ive really fallen for this kid..hard. and i dont want to let anyone know! because they will tell him or be like umm he has a girlfriend?? and i dont want to tell him or anything because i dont want him to be like sorry i dont like you that way i really like my girlfriend. im just not one to ask people about what they are feeling for me.

what would you guys do? im not just gonna give up on him i like him way to much..

well thank you!


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how can i even compare to his girlfriend?...see why this is a problem?? jealousy is something i cant handle.
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dam01993 answered Thursday December 15 2011, 7:46 pm:
best thing is to take him to one side and explain your feelings to him... tell it from the heart, no matter how much you like this guy, and the fact that he has a gf is not gonna make you change the way you feel about him. so what I suggest is u go and tell him how u feel, don't hold back

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