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problem about a guy
Me and my friend have been friends for a while and recently she told me about her cusion. i met him and a couple months later we started going out. just last week he broke up with me suddenly because he said he wasnt ready for a girlfriend.But i odnt think its that...i think it's because im in 8th and he's in 11th i mean, even his best friend cant figure him out! then the next day he e-mailed me back saying he was stupid he did and he still really likes me a lot and misses me. now he is on vacation and he said when he comes home he will have made a decision about going out with me or not. I really really like him but if he ends up asking me out i dont want to sound easy and say yes but i really like him but i dont want to sound easy!Also i've never made-out before and im dying to with him because he is the only one i would but now i dont know what to do!
help me please!
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First, I don't think he should be the only one with a say on whether you two need to go out or not. If he act's weird and your not into him anymore and he wants to go out you should have a say. He seems kinda confused. if he wants to go out with you when he gets back, fine say yes but really you should talk to him about why he broke up with you in the first place and ask him how he feels about the grade/age difference. If all goes well after you talk to him say yes trust me you wont sound easy. You can makeout with him when you're together. Most likely he will be the one to kiss you but if it takes forever and your dying to makeout with him go ahead and make the first move. Now if he doesn't wanna go out with you when he comes back and you still wanna go out with him you should ask him why he doesn't want to and why hes going back and forth with his emotions-breaking up with you, missing you and wanting you again but having to chose to go out with you or not. If he has a good reason like hes really not ready, fine leave him alone, give him time. If he has a lame excuse like he found somone his age he likes or he's been with some other girl, or something as dumb as that, dont let him waste your time and forget about him for good. The bad thing about him not wanting to go out with you, if he doesn't want to go out with you is he might ignore you-sometimes guys are like that, so if he does you should go up to him and ask him if he's made a decsion, and prepare yourself for the worst. hopefully things wont end up that way. good luck!
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