im sorry because this might sound stupid. but i think im in love with this kid scott. and he says he loves me but im not sure if its true or not. and then me and him have been talking for a really long time. almost 2 years now. and he always says that he wants to ask me out. and i always tell him i love him and everything. but one of his best friends loves me. this kid chris. and so scott says that he doesnt want to ruin anything with chris and him so he doesnt think asking me out would be a good idea. and i mean if i keep talking to scott im just gonna like him more and more each and every day. and im not going to ask him out because i just think its wrong. i dont kno. but so hes not going to ask me out because he doesnt want to ruin anything with him and his best friend.
what should i do ?
love, me.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? missmanda answered Monday July 10 2006, 7:16 pm: no problem ever sounds stupid to me. well, i'm thinking that scott and chris should have a talk about you and scott dating first of all. and i think that the two of them shouldn't get upset at eachother if you and scott start dating. friends shouldn't be broken up because of a girl. that happened to my dad and his best buddy in high school, and they stopped being friends. (might i add you must be pretty awesome if you've got two besties after you ;P). plus they obviously wouldn't have that great of a friendship if chris gets extremely upset, in my opinion anyway. he should respect that scott found someone great and that someone great feels the same about his friend. there's plenty of fish in the sea for him, and he should realize that. you could even help him find a lady?
with you and scott. you just need to go for it girl. i'd just let the wind blow it as far as it should go, and wants it to go. let him be ready to ask you out. no rush right? i know it sucks to wait, but you gotta think about how he's feelin ya know? cause rushing things might ruin something good.
gahh! good luck girl! i hope everything goes wonderfully, and let me know how everything turns out. and if you got anymore questions, i'm here for you. :) [ missmanda's advice column | Ask missmanda A Question ]
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