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Virginity
Im going to lose my virginity this Saturday and Im very scared and nervous. I really wish I was prepared but Im not. I really am ready though. I just wanted some advice from ppl who already lost the Big V. Or maybe some websites telling what it's like. I know the skin hurts when it breaks but I dont know what it's like to have a guy "In There". U kno,,, with a condom. I really don't want to make a big fool of myself. Thanx.
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Losing your virginity shouldn't be something you schedule into your calender to do. You don't say how old you are or if this is with a boyfriend or just a friend or what, but from the way I read your question, I would urge you to wait until you are more ready for this. It kind of sounds to me like perhaps you are being pressured into this and thats not how you want to remember your first time being.
Just remember, you can't undo IT once IT is done. Please be 150% sure that this is what you want to do before you do it.
As for what it is like, it is different for everyone. Some females feel a lot of pain for a few moments, some bleed, some just feel pleasure right away. The more you are worried about making a fool of yourself or doing it right or wrong, the less pleasureable it will be for you. It is always akward the first time, thats why you want it to be with someone who makes you special and is going "ease you into it". Good luck in making the right decision for you.
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Believe me, I know about sex. If you're asking this question here, obviously you aren't quite ready. It's great that you asked about it which shows you're mature. It seems like you've been going back & forth on the issue and I seriously suggest you think real hard about it before you do it. No matter what anyone says, losing your virginity is important and should involve 2 very in love individuals.
If you disreguard what I say which is fine because it is your life and decide to have sex, you can't really explain it. It does hurt and you will be uncomfortable but so will he. First times aren't all that magical, bliss stuff you see on movies. Your first time is special, yes, but it's a learning experience. When you're actually engaging in sex, you won't be worrying if you're doing it right because there's no real "wrong" thing to do. It's your first time! Relax and have a long, serious talk with whoever you are planning to do it with. Make sure you're both on the same page.
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