ok so this is going to be pretty long. by the way ima girl. well me and this guy used to "talk" like we likedd eachother but then he went out with this other girl and i was really mad but didnt show it and i kinda went on with my life the rest of the year.. well kinda see i never got over him and even when i would tell my friends and convince my self i liked someone else he was always in the back of my mind. and a few weeks ago he came over and we kindda messed around... it might not be a big deal to a lot of people but it is to me. well yeah we messed around me thinking if we did he would like me more which he doesnt he juss flirts with al thsese other girls and he only talks to me when he wants to come over and thats only whenn im home lone well yeah hes not a virgin and i am so its no big to him but i want to be in a love relationship before i do anything to crazy but now i think im more of a goal to him and he told some of his friends that we did stuff so know there callin me up the wall playing with my heart... uhhh i needa lot of help. and i juss want someone that will care for me and not think of me as a freakin peace of meat yuh know.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? mikelaNana answered Monday July 3 2006, 1:51 am: mikela thinks:
well. i went through something like that awhile ago. and i know you like him. but you are better than that and you knwo it. now i know it might be tough because you really like him but you have to remember HES NOT GOOD for you. he isnt interested in you. hes interested in your "va jay jay" as ana likes to call it. i mean i know he was your first person to mess around with but it doesnt change the fact hes no good. you DESERVE soo much better. like seriousely go look in the mirror RIGHT NOW. and repeat after me. [your name here] i love myself. i love my body. i respect myself i respect my body. no man can change that or lower my standers. wait untill you find someone who loves you doesnt care if you make out or talk. doesnt care if you have sex or watch tv lol you feel me.
:]] good luck
ana: wow. girl you speak tha truth. no girl should EVER be looked at as a piece of meat. okay this is guy is SOOOO not worth your time. i know its easier said then done, but you need to drop this hoe and find someone who repects you and doesnt use you for his sexual pleasure. once you find a great guy, your gonna realize how inconsiderate this last one was. stand up for youself, dump the whore and find someone that deserves you.
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