Oh man, here goes, and it is going to be long. Sorry about that. So I used have a crush on this guy who rode in my lessons at my old stables (yes, he rides English....no, he is not gay)and then he was at my camp. We were kinda unofficialy going out, like we danced at the camp dance and stuff but it was not official. Then, I switched barns and I miss him so much because I haven't seen him since. (My best friend still rides there and sees him all the time and likes to rub it in, but that is irrelevant.) We are going back to camp this summer (in a couple weeks) and I know that once I see him, all my feelings I used to have for him will come back. I'm not even sure what his past year has been like with girls, but I know he doesn't have a girlfriend right now. However, I just got out of a messy, messy relationship that was not worth all of my effort. I don't want another one of those. So the main question is, if the feelings come back, do I go for it or do I lay low? If I lay low, how do I ignore my feelings?
Additional info, added Saturday July 1 2006, 8:40 pm: The reason I don't want to have another relationship is I don't trust myself with guy's hearts anymore. I so totally fuNked up the last guy's heart and he didn't deserve it. Oh and 14/F.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kendrabdatgirl answered Sunday July 2 2006, 2:46 pm: well im sure your feelings will come back for him since you still think about him..but then again you haven't seen him in a while and people change...anywayz when you do take the chance to get reunited with him again i think you should take things slow instead of getting into a relaionship because you did say you dont trust yourself with guys hearts and if you really like this boy then you shouldnt be in a rush to have a relationship with him to then later break his heart. however, dont ignore your feelings for him..try flirting or kissing just have fun.. but dont take it to a level where someone can get hurt by mix feelings or anything like that...good luck hope i helped [ kendrabdatgirl's advice column | Ask kendrabdatgirl A Question ]
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