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i need love advice
i'm 14 and i've been dating this guy for 6 months and he's admitted of cheating twice and i've luckily forgiven him the first time bbut i also gave my virginty to him and i think were like totally perfect at some point of times and then at other times it's so hard to get by in this relationship... but my problem is now that he's admitted he's cheating he's acussing me of cheating and it's becoming a pain should i leave him or try to stay strong
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I guess I would look at the word 'strong'. Strength, to me, implies that you are willing to protect yourself emotionally even when it might cause you pain. It's about having respect for yourself and standing up for yourself.
If you have been with someone for only 6 months and he has cheated twice, that shows a big lack of respect and caring for you (from him). The fact that he is now accusing you of cheating shows he is trying to justify his behaviour, when in reality there's nothing that can justify infidelity.
It is ultimately your decision whether to stay with this person, and the fact that you lost your virginity to him can make the idea of a breakup even more painful. Perhaps it would help to take some time to honestly think about what qualities you want (and deserve!) from a boyfriend.
Do you feel loved and cherished? Do you feel trusted and trusting? Are you genuinely happy?
Best of luck.
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