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How to abstain from masturbation........


Question Posted Thursday June 29 2006, 6:51 am

I have been masturbating (conventionally) for the last three years.At first everything was normal and going well but gradually,over the period of time,I noticed certain peculiar changes in my penis.I think it will be useful to mention here that I started off masturbating about 15 to 20 times a week.Sometimes,the number even escalated to 9 to 10 times daily.Whenever I tried to refrain from masturbation for a day or two,this intense surge came over me and I felt myself giving in to the great temptation of masturbation and ended up doing it again a multitude of times.As such,now that i am 18 and a virgin,I seemed to have lost my penile erection and stiffness.Sometimes it even remains, relatively soft at the time of orgasm.Not to mention it has also lost its orginal shape and has become disfigured.I am quite worried about this and dread the apprehension of not being able to perform sexual intercourse,in the future.

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jumadel answered Friday June 30 2006, 5:20 am:
Hi, what your going through is normal, but don't you think you were doing it quite alot back there? I think that if you did have sex with someone you got to know as a girlfriend then there just might be a possibilitie that you don't cum or fail to get what they call a hard on. But you would just have to find out that for yourself with a girl now wouldn't you? As you move a bit forward out of puberty our libidos (sex-drives) remain the same but we don't really have as many erections or hard ons than when you did a few years back. This is nothing to be a shame of. Some people find that oral sex is better for them to get a quick erection. But it is quite likely that you will get an erection. Especially if the opposite sex had her kit off. Hope that answered it all. Daniel.

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