I have some serious trouble geting guys, I look good and I know most of them think I look good, but I act relly cold around people I'm not extreamly close with so most of them are kind of scared of me or think I'm stuck up. So I saw this advert about a ebook today called "Catch Him And Keep Him" and I was wondering if it would help me the website is www.catchhimandkeephim.com I was also wondering if there is a website where I can download this book or another book on the subject of getting guys for free, because I don't have that kind of money to spare for ebooks. I was also wondering how I can make guys like me without acting like a slut and also how I can let them know that I am not a scary person.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? jumadel answered Tuesday June 27 2006, 11:58 pm: Hi, the real answer to getting guys is to just take up the confidence to talk to them. Books generally try and put their words into your mouth when really what you want to say and do is alot better. It's just a way for the Authors to get money. They can't guarentee that your going to get a boyfriend in 24hours but then again it isn't impossible. What works for people who are shy is that they do every conversation with someone different everyday. For example:
First day
Shy person: Hi
Other person: hi
Second day
Shy person: Hi
Other person: hi
Shy person: How's your day today, having a nice one?
Other person: Replies
Third day
Shy person: Hi, hows your day
Other person: Replies
Shy person: Watching the football world cup?
Other person: Replies
Shy person: I like watching it, what do you like watching?
Do you see how each day a shy person can add a sentence each day and ask questions. It's good to ask open questions because you can lead it to a conversation and when your finished talking you could ask them if you would like to catch up sometime. Heres 3 good tips to remember when talking to the opposite sex:
1. Compliments
2. Open questions
3. Small talk
You might notice that the more you talk to people, the more confidence you get. Confidence is very important because guys and girls love people who are confident in themselves as an induvidual. Daniel. [ jumadel's advice column | Ask jumadel A Question ]
grkadvisor answered Tuesday June 27 2006, 11:50 pm: you shouldnt worry about what other guys think of you and if the guy finds out when he falls for you that you got wat you did from a book online he would get mad because he fell for a girl who wasnt being herself but being someone else guys dont like girls who arent themselves because then the girls are considered "fake" like a barbie she is the perfect girl in the world but she isnt alive shes unreal so dont be something that is unreal be who you are and dont be so cold open up its good to be open instead of keeping things inside you
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