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Friends With Benefits.
15/F..Okay, well there's this kid who i really like, and he supposedly likes me. We've been talking for over a month, and he still hasn't asked me out or anything. Last week i asked him about it and he freaked out, and to sum it up he pretty much said to forget we ever talked in the first place. But then, and i'm not exactly sure how this happened, we decided to be "friends with benefits" i'm not sure if that's what i want, but i think that maybe if we do that, he'll want an actual relationship. But then there's this other kid, who is so very sweet, and i like him...alot. I have no idea what to do, but i think i'm pretty much in love with them both, and i think this is a for-real thing, because i don't like to throw that word around..i just wanted someones honest opinion on this whole situation..what would you do if you were me?
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If you really like the guy you're in a friends with benefit relationship, it's best to be up front that you're in it for more. There's a good chance that your FWB does like you as more, but he's just nervous, and if you say he doesn't have to deal with the relationship stuff, he won't make a move too. Girls tend to care a little more about those things.
The way I see it is you have several options.
First one being, stay FWB with first boy, and keep talking to second boy, just feeling each other out. That way you can make the decision with more information. However, it might be a little hard or straining to carry on both at once.
Number two option is telling FWB that you want more. Which he can either agree to or disagree too. If he agrees then great. If he disagrees, well you have the second guy, and he'll see what he's missing.
Good luck with whatever you choose.
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