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boy problem
Okay i am haveing total boy problems like usual. Here it goes. Okay there is this boy that i have known for 4 years and we have gone out sooo many times. i met him when i was 8 and he was really ignorant to me then. but we grew more mature and started dateing again after a year and like 7 months. well he has this thing about treated me badly,getting mad super easy,saying mean things to me and i just couldn't take it. we went out like 5 times this summer already . My best friend thinks i need to get over him and move on cause there are alot of other guys who like me but i can;t seem to get over him at all. Now his best friend really likes me and we went out but it only lasted like 2 days. He is my BEST FRIEND now and i love him to death but everyone thinks i need to go out with him. I don't know what to do. He is a total sweetheart and will do anything and everything just to spend time with me. But something about likeing him scares me. I don't know. I just can't like my best friend but its hard not to. What should i do Teza ? I really like the boy i known for 4 years and i know he likes me back but he just has trouble showing it. I am so scared and i am confused please help me !!
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What people want and think is best for you is their opinion but no one know's what's best for you besides yourself. You and this guy that you've known for 4 years seem to have a difficult and confusing relationship. He hurt you a lot in the past and I honestly think that he will continue being like that. His way of showing how he likes you is all wrong. You guys had a thing going on but I agree with your best friend. You should move on. Yeah, you might really like this kid but he doesn't seem to make you happy. Even thought you're best friends with his best friend, you should give him a chance and see how it works out. Nothing can ruin the relationship unless both of you chose to. If it doesn't work out being "boy friend and girl friend", go back to being friends. It might feel akward but if you guys are best friends, you wouldn't let a silly think ruin that friendship. So give this guy a chance and spend some time away from the other guy. If he asks you out again, say no because you will keep going through the same thing over and over.
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