im a 19/f and when my boyfriend and i are making out before foreplay i become easily aroused, and get lubricated. sometimes i feel like im too wet and get embarrased, it kills the mood because im wet before he even fingers me.. is this normal??! i dont even like being fingered soemtimes because of it. also- when he fingers me i always feel like i have to pee even if i pee right before foreplay? im always scared that im going to push out the pee when i squeeze my vaginal muscles.. please give me some advice on this
Lubricant helps your vagina cope with penetration and can make sex more pleasureable for you. Without enough wetness, you could become chafed or uncomfortable.
Most women get wet during foreplay, and many get very, very wet. It's normal.
The only way this could cause a problem is if it's stressing you out or making you feel anxious. Like you've said, it can kill the mood and stop you from having pleasure. In actual reality, your body is responding normally to being aroused and is actually functioning the way it's supposed to.
This feeling of needing to pee is also quite common. Your boyfriend could be stimulating your G-Spot; a feeling this can produce is needing to pee. Rest assured - it's very, very hard to pee when your body is aroused...even if you are trying. It's highly unlikely any pee would escape during foreplay. This is particularly true when you are squeezing your muscles, as this would stop the flow of pee.
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