ok i've heard some stories about girls having sex for the first time....and then it not being possible becuase it hurts to bad cuz the guy is...too big i guess?
does this happen and is it something that i should worry about?
cuz im a virgin and i just want to be prepared i guess.
tasuki answered Tuesday June 27 2006, 11:30 am: It's different for everyone. Personally, I think you should try masturbating. It's good to know your own body, how it feels and how you react, before sharing it with another person. If you don't want to, that's fine, it's just what I personally think is best. Don't worry about it at all! You'll probably be pretty tense the first time, but it'll get easier. Oh, and make sure you're absolutely ready. If you question it at all, even for a second--you're NOT ready.
Vikki27 answered Saturday June 24 2006, 5:54 pm: Originally, in most cases, it does hurt quite a lot because you're not used to having something 'up there'. Don't worry, the pain does usually eventually subside but there is also normally some bleeding after your first time. This is a result of your hymen being broken but if you wear tampons, it is possible your hymen may already be broken. As the pain you experience initially is through the hymen breaking, this does mean it might hurt less.
To be honest I don't think it is something that you should worry about. Every girl feels nervous before her first time but when you meet a guy you know you really want to be with in that way, you won't worry so much about the pain as you will the feeling you just want to be close to him. Believe me, when that happens, it will be worth the initial pain. [ Vikki27's advice column | Ask Vikki27 A Question ]
grkadvisor answered Saturday June 24 2006, 3:30 am: yes it does hurt alot all girls say it hurts alot but wat helps i hear is if you use a sex toy to stretch out your vagina and break your hymen i hear it hurts way less that way
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