I've never had an orgasm. I mastubate and am with a steady bf. He's my 4th bf. I reckon if reaching orgasm is 10 then I can probably get to a 9 but never reach a 10! Its very anoyying. I don't like vibrators, they don't turn me on, I usually use a pillow, that is the most effective. I love my clitoris to be stimulated! But I never come! Why not? I'm mature enough, and feel safe in my relationship. What can I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BabyShammy answered Friday June 23 2006, 4:16 pm: Hunny, sorry to tell you but some people just can't get to that point and it's ok, it's not like theres something wrong, many people think that they are mature enough but some peoples body are just not ready for that 10 yet, it may feel like you are but the body knows best and when u are ready your body will let you know, one of these days it will just happen. Everybody's body matures at a different rate and urs might be maturing slower than others. Just think of it this way, if your body is maturing slowler than others it will be amizing the first time because you've come so close to it before.
Another solution is to get your man to try soemthing different maybe what hes doing is just not working for you........maybe you need a bit more stimulation.......
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.