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me and this girl have been friendly 4 bout 5 months and the other month she txtd me sayin she has no got a bf and that she still wants to keep in touch with me cos she will miss me, and when we went on our date she has kept the photo we had taken of us and she has also kept the train ticket and this boyfiend she has now she says is " the 1" if he is the 1 y keep the ticket and photo of us?
the the other day she was meant to send her bf a txt and it appeard on my phone instead when his name is Kris and my name is Ste but K is nowere near S in the alaphbet is it? is she tryin to make me jelious r sumthin?
she says that the date we went on she will never 4get it was 1 of the best days she had and that when we kiss she went all funny but i still dont understand it? when we talk now we just end up arguing and bitchin bout each other then we say sorry 2 each other and that it wasnt nice but y does she still want me as a mate if we argue and then make up the other day she said she "hated me and that i had "blown it "( why had i blown it she says she dont like me anymre) and told me to "piss off" but then she txts back and says sorry bout bfore . but if she dont like me and i pissd her off why she wanna keep intouch with me she says I always make her happy and smile isn’t that wot a bf is for? But she told me the other day she had got rid of the photo?
I know I shound havnt done it thou but I made a fake email addy to talk 2 her “bf” and I was talking 2 him and he seems a nice guy but when I askd him are you single he said ye iam but iam just getting off with this girls thou. So I think she finks they are seein each other?then I askd her wot is she doin 2nite ( last nit) and she said iam goin out with kris and havin sumthin 2 eat at his,but when I was talking to him askd him wot was he up 2 2nit and he said “ just a quite nite in watchin the football and I was talking 2 him till bout 11 ( at nite)anyways y is she tryin 2 make me jelious? I thought you only made sum1 jelious when you likd them?
help me plzzzzzz
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This girl seems to be confused about the way she feels. I mean girls can be so complicated sometimes, we just don't know when we have a good thing going.
Girls always keep photos and stuff to remind them of the good times they have, sometimes keeping a photo doesn't really mean anything it's just keeping a nice memory.
It's not not clear whether she's trying to make you jealous or not, I think this because you had already been on a date with her so she must know that you like her, so there's no need to make you jealous to get you to like her.
People argue all the time especially close friends and sometimes people say stuff that they don't men through their anger. So I don't think she's trying to be mean or anything and your arguements shouldn't really get you down too much.
By making a fake e-mail and trying to find out about this guy, perhaps that wasn't such a good idea because although you may think that your finding out about this guy, you really don't know what he's like. He may just tell you he's "watching the football" because he may be embarrassed about saying he's having a night in with his "gf". So I wouldn't go jumping to conclusions too quickly.
All I can say is that I think it's best for you to give this girl some space, because the more you "hassle" her then the more you will drive her away. It's best that you continue to remain friends with her and be there for her. Who knows in time she may tell you that she likes you or that the other guy is a jerk. But it seems that for now, there isn't much more you can do.
Hope this helps! :-)
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