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not sure on what to do
hi, im a 15 year old boy and i like this 15 year old ghirl aolt. we've been friends for about 4 years now and we have gone out twice but it only lasted about a month or 2 each time...she broke it off because she didnt want to ruin or friendshiip..it was only 8th grade (last year) and she was into this hole not make out thing but w.e thats not the point. i still really care for her and ive told her this before and she says she doesnt wanna ruin the friendship and that she cant see me like that at the time..itds been about a month shes been single for about a month aswell and i want to tell her before summer vacation how much i care but i dont want to seem obsesive..please help thanks so much in advance
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aw thats sweet well i think u should tell her that you care for her alot and that she doesnt have to go out with you because you understand that she doesnt want to ruin the friendship but you just want to prove to her that you guys can be more and if that doesnt work out then tell her you still want to be friends something along those lines hope i helped!
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Thats sweet. OK, well however much you care for her you need to be light-hearted about it, so you dont put her under too much pressure. The beginnings of relationships are the best bits so dont rush her. Just say: ______, i still have feelings for you. I dont expect you to go out with me because i know how you feel about ruining our friendship, so theres no pressure. But I would like to prove to you that we can be more and it can work.
or something like that. You get the idea. right best of luck xxxx
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Hi,
well I'm kinda in the same situation so this is what i would do.find her at the end of the day or breifly in the hall way and say " hi (her name) umm...do you want to go out sometime " and if she doesn't say anything jump in and say " I know you don't want to ruin the friendship but I really care about you and i hope you could just give me a chance"
Hope I could help
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