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omg big mistake!!
ok i never really talk this guy i really like and i just met him at a party and we slow danced but he slowdanced with 4 other girlz.i didnt know what 2 say so my friend told me 2 say "do you like any1?" and he said "i dunno u?" and i said "i dunno do you like any1 a little bit" and he said "o ya this girl at my skool" so i said "o ya, 2 tell you the truth i like you a little bit" and he was like "okay" and then i didnt say anything after that and he went oflline. i was SOOO EMBARESSED!!! wut should i do 2 make him think im not totally weird and desperate.. if you were a guy would you think im weird?? anyways i just need sum help, thx
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The first thing I want to say is "YOU GO GIRL!!" Good for you for telling him that you like him. Most girls will either keep their mouths shut, and then the guy will never know, or they get friends to do it for them. You took the initiative and went for it....that's called girl power!
Now, I understand that you are embarrased. The fact that he went offline promptly after you told him could mean a couple of things.
#1 - you totally caught him off guard and he didn't know what to say (which is not neccessarily a bad thing).
#2 - when you didn't say anything to him after you initially told him, he got embarrased (which also isn't neccessarily a bad thing).
#3 - there of course is the chance that your feelings aren't returned, and he didn't know how to tell you.
My guess is that it's one of the first two. Guys aren't used to girls who "make the first move" so to speak. Since the beginning of time it's always been the guy who does that. Well times are a changing, and you proved that!
I don't think you're wierd at all. I think your confident, courageous, and you know what you want. Those are all very good qualities to have. I can tell you one thing....if this guy doesn't snatch you up, someone is waiting in the wings for you.
Just continue to be yourself, make light of the situation if it's really awkward around him. Humour always makes sticky situations better. Keep your head up, and know that you are very worthy of getting a great guy!!
Take care,
Brenda
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